The way out of grief is to go through it.
The H.E.A.L.I.N.G. program works with individuals, groups, schools, agencies, and organizations to validate, normalize, and educate their process through grief.
Ken Barringer, M.A., LMHC
Grief and Loss
Grief and loss are part of every human’s experience. Grief is complex, personal and unique to our experience, loss history and what we have been taught about how we should be managing it. Who among us has never been impacted by the death of someone we cared about (and the response to that is grief), or suffered a psychosocial loss that could be as powerful as a death (divorce, catastrophic injury, job loss)? Grief and loss do not recognize age, race, religion, culture, gender, or socio-economic group. However, these are factors in how grief and loss are processed.
At the time of loss there is a natural tendency to protect ourselves by denying or repressing our feelings. We may hope that by moving on we will outlast the period of mourning and bereavement. However, grief over any meaningful relationship does not end. What we are tasked to do is remake the relationship and integrate the loss into our lives going forward. When we neglect our feelings around grief the impact of the loss may surface in us behaviorally, cognitively, physically, socially and/or spiritually.
- Individual, group and family counseling and consultation
- Support groups for professionals working in grief and loss (e.g., healthcare workers, hospice, first responders)
- Assessment and planning for organizations (schools, businesses) in the aftermath of loss
- Teaching and training
Ken Barringer, M.A., LMHC has worked in the field of mental health since 1984 and is the Director of the Academy in Newton, as well as an Adjunct Faculty member at Lesley University, Division of Counseling and Psychology. He is also a member of the American Counseling Association, Massachusetts Mental Health Counselors Association, Association for Counseling Education and Supervision, and the Association for Multicultural Counseling and Development.
- Grief practice since 1996: Individual, group, family counseling /children, adolescents, and adults
- Clinical consultant Camp Erin® Boston: National bereavement summer camp /children & adolescents
- Caregiver Group facilitator Heartplay℠–EAST: Monthly bereavement program
- Developed grief support groups at several high schools private and public
- Consultant since 2001 for schools and businesses in aftermath of community tragedies (suicide, homicide) and national tragedies (mass shootings and its impact on their community)
- Needham Suicide Prevention Coalition Postvention chair
- Monthly consultations for hospice workers
- Consultant regarding substance use deaths, Boston Bulldog Running Club (a running club for those impacted by addiction)
HEALING is a division of The Academy of Physical and Social Development, Inc.
Monthly Caregiver Group
The term caregiver encompasses a range of people. One could be a parent caring for their child or parent; grandparent raising a grandchild; aunt and uncle raising their nephew; a friend who has been asked to look after a teen; a foster couple with temporary custody of a child. Whatever the situation caregivers can find themselves working in the aftermath of trauma and loss. This monthly group creates space for caregivers to receive validation, support, camaraderie and normalization of their experience.
Participants are asked to commit to 4 meetings. There are both in-person and virtual options for this group.
Confirm your interest to Ken Barringer.
Monthly Early Adulthood Group
Age 22 – 34
While some important tasks of those in early adulthood can be achieving financial independence, committing to a significant partnership, or negotiating life choices, it doesn’t make them immune from grief. However, viable appropriate groups often are not available. Group services tend to be specialized for children in school, hospice related or for a specific type of loss. There are few spaces for people in this age group to get supported by their peers regardless of the type of loss they have experienced. H.E.A.L.I.N.G.’s Early Adult Group is just such a place. This monthly group creates an opportunity for early adults to receive validation, support, camaraderie, and normalization of their experience.
Groups meet one time each month, in-person and are limited in size. Participants are asked to commit to 4 meetings.
Confirm your interest to Ken Barringer.
Featuring Ken Barringer / Director, H.E.A.L.I.N.G.. View the video
Featuring Jessica Moran/ RRCA Level 1 Certified Running Coach. View the video
Featuring Ashley Rachel / Mindset Coach.
Featuring Kathy Seltzer LIC. AC/ Acupuncture Care Specialist. View the video
Featuring Jennifer Wiles LMHC-DMT / Director, The Heartplay Program. View the video
Featuring Marci Zieff / Founder, Creating Calm LLC.
We invite you to view to this Taste of Healing conversation that took place on April 13, 2021. A varied group of providers, a few colleagues and friends engaged in a 60-minute discussion on ways to help manage grief and loss.
What did your family, friends, culture, or religion teach you about how to manage things that might feel unmanageable? When you think back to one of your first losses be it…
September 15, 2021
In this world, there are truths and realities, and those two things are not necessarily always the same. With this in mind here are a few thoughts about grief counseling. There…
June 25, 2021
Where were you when you got the news? Who did you hear it from? What was your initial reaction and did you have any variability of emotion (anxiety, relief, uncertainty,…
May 26, 2021
**Warning**. This blog post contains a surplus of simple questions and a shortage of simple answers. How do we re-enter our lives? A deep dive? Cautiously dipping our toes in the…
May 3, 2021
As we are on the verge of reentering our new world who amongst us would logically say “I’m concerned about letting go of how I have been living since March of 2020”? What would…
April 4, 2021
Grief counseling, like grief itself, is very individualized and specific to the bereaved. If you were to observe several individual’s I counsel for grief those sessions would all…
March 1, 2021